Love
is natural and unconditional. Love asks
no questions--neither preaching nor demanding;
neither comparing nor measuring. Love is--pure
the
greatest value. . .
If
there is no deep, internalized feeling of value
inside of us, then we have nothing to give
to or share with others. We can need them,
we can be dependent upon them, we can
look for security in them, we can indulge them,
flatter them and attempt to purchase them. But we cannot share or give an emotion
to anyone else, unless we first possess that
emotion inside of us.
Denis Waitley
Seeds of Greatness
pp. 32