Don't aim at success--the more you aim
at it and make it a target, the more you are
going to miss it. For success, like
happiness, cannot be persued; it must
ensue, and it only does so as the un-
intended side-effect of one's personal
dedication to a cause greater than oneself
or as the by-product of one's surender to a
person other than oneself. Happiness must
happen, and the same holds for success;
you have to let it happen by not caring about it.

Victor E. Frankl
Man's Search For meaning
pp.16-17